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Law Of Attraction And Goal Setting Techniques

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

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It is said that “one must have as many goals as possible. One ideally must fill their life with 5000 goals, to be very wealthy, even small things must be included”. But there are many authors who say that one must have around 2-3 main goals and having too many of them would dissipate our energy. Which is actually true as these two seem to be going counter to each other? – Jai

 

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What do the most successful and wealthiest people in the world have in common? They have written goals, they are willing to pay the price for achieving them and they put for the sustained effort to achieve them.

Did you know that 97% of the world’s population will never realize their full potential? Perhaps you’ve read “100 college student” study? The students that were the most successful (the top 3%) did only one thing different than those who were less successful: they wrote down their goals.

Did you also know that writing your goals down increases your odds of achieving them by 80%?

We set goals for clarity, purpose, fulfillment and intentionality. We use our goals as a means of clarifying what we want to achieve, as a compass for focused purposeful living and fulfillment and to simply utilize the powerful law of attraction.

Goal setting is a trait of a successful achiever. The simple act of committing to paper what you want to do, be and have serves as an effortless beacon, an attraction magnet to invite great things into your life.

Some experts say, “Always have a date attached to your goal” while others say, ‘no deadline, as a date only causes attachment and doubt’. Some will say, ‘focus on 3-6 goals at a time and forget all others’, while others say, ‘have as many goals as you possibly can.’

Guess what?!?! You get to explore and decide what works for you!

Play with goals and creative manifesting routines until you figure out what method or madness inspires you to your greatest success, while simultaneously recognizing that there are proven pathways of success and you don’t have to re-invent the wheel.

My suggestion is to set small, daily, achievable goals, interim milestone goals and your B-HAGs (Big, Harry, Audacious, Goals). Use the tried-and-true SMART goal-setting method (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Timely) combined with my Living Vision in Divine Order process (give thanks and accept Divine Timing simultaneously.)
When you write your goals down, you are automatically applying the law of attraction. The Universe will begin to put circumstances and opportunities before you that will support you on your path towards success.
Here’s what I do…

Daily:

My Primary Focus Goals

Choose 2 to 3 goals (maximum) and put forth your full attention upon these objectives until they are fulfilled. I write these goals down daily. Taking daily, inspired action towards these primary focus goals on a consistent, daily basis will propel you to success. These goals get full living visions each and every day.

My ToDo list and God’s ToDo list

This is an Abraham exercise that is simply indispensable. This list includes any item that you have on your plate right now; from returning calls and emails, to praying for a friend, to writing thank you notes, to picking up the dry-cleaning to manifesting a million dollars for your new business venture. You have two columns on your ToDo list, your side (left) and God’s side (right). Anything that you can’t get done today or that you know you will not be doing today becomes God’s ToDo. Simply draw a line from your side to God’s and hand it over to Him/Her!

Top 6 Goals for Life

You can identify these goals by answering the question, “When I’m on my death bed (at 132) and I’m looking back on my life, if I have accomplished these top 6 goals then I will have lived a meaningful life that made a difference.” These top 6 goals are actually the materialization of your values.

I write these goals down every day because nothing that I do matters if it’s not in alignment with these top 6 goals. Immersing myself in the full intentionality and awareness that these guiding goals are the foundation upon which all of my activities must be based supports me in continually assessing my path in order to adjust accordingly.

My Victory Log and My Gratitude List

Nightly, I review my day for what I’m grateful for and any and all victories.

Weekly:

Top 10 Goals for Right Now

These goals allow me to focus on the project milestones and action items in a more detailed manner. By writing these down on Sunday and putting them at my desk or in my calendar as a reminder, I have my ‘bigger things first’ list right in front of me. I check them off one by one and review these goals several times a day to make sure I’m focused, productive, and on target.

Monthly:

My Project Breakdown

All elephants must be reduced to bite-sized morsels! This is my ongoing list of project goals, milestones, action items, and questions. I take time to reverse engineer every goal and every project that is worthy of my attention. (I qualify this because not every goal gets my attention and reversed engineered right now. Some goals are there for the Universe to work on without me!)

This monthly activity breaks my big dreams down into achievable and believable steps while simultaneously instills a dialog between me and the Universal Intelligence. It’s not necessary to know ‘how’ I’m manifesting every big goal, but if it’s a project that I can breakdown into mini-accomplishments (the “what(s)” of the project) then the big U will support the manifestation of the resources, action steps, and methods (the “how(s)” of the project.)

One very important aspect of this exercise is the identification of what I don’t know; the questions that I will eventually need to have answered. I find that whenever I am procrastinating on a goal, 90% of the time it’s because I don’t know what to do next, I’m unclear or I’m afraid of making a mistake. By identifying the questions to be answered; the ‘what do I need to know to accomplish this goal’ questions, I inspire the Universe to give me answers to not only these questions but to questions that I didn’t even know I would need answered.

The 100 Things I want to be/do/have before I die

I review, add-to, envision, create treasure maps of and/or take inspired action upon anything on this list that calls me in the moment.

For example, this is simply my list numbered from 1-100 of:

Things I want to do:
1 – learn the guitar
2 – find a great customer service assistant
3 – take a cruise to the Mediterranean

Things I want to be:
4 – be more patient and loving with my children
5 – be more persistent with my EFT
6 – be more organized

Things I want to have:
7 – new curtains and fabulously stylish window dressings
8 – a dentist that understands holistic medicine and law of attraction
9 – a fun and enlightened social circle of friends that inspire, entertain, and uplift me.

My list is not broken down into categories as the example above, but I simply have an ongoing list of my 100 things! I have had many of these lists through out the years and I like to keep it all on one page so that I can know exactly what I want to visualize during my next creative manifesting appointment (with God and I).

Yearly and/or Quarterly:

My Treasure Map:

I create treasure maps of specific goals that I’m focusing upon. I cut out pictures and words that give met the emotional essence of what I will feel when I have this ‘goal’ and paste together a collage that I enjoy fantasizing and visualizing with regularly.

My Values for Life and Comprehensive Goals:

This is my list of the goals I have for the 13 different compartments of my life. Every goal will fall under one of the following headings: Self-Growth (Spiritual, Mental, Physical, Emotional, Personality), Relationships (Family, Mate, Friends/Community), and Worldly (Financial, Career/Life Purpose/Path, Material, Activism, Adventure). I choose to break my goals down once a year just to stay on top of life and make sure I’m being intentional.

It’s been said that we cannot hit a target that we cannot see. Setting goals is simply a conscious creator’s way of clearly ’seeing’ the target(s).

The above system is what I do that works for me. Your method does NOT have to be anything like this in order to be successful. If the above feels overwhelming (and if you’ve never been a goal-setter before, it just might) then start with the most important goals (My Top 6 Goals for Life) and that’s it!

I find that if I try to focus every day on all my goals, then I dissipate my energy and experience greater setbacks and frustration. Therefore, funneling my goals down with a system such as the above, allows me the best of both worlds – greater vision and singular focus.

Start where you are and proceed in the direction of your dreams. Be consistent, persistent, and resilient; never let setbacks, perceived failures, or obstacles defeat you. Fearlessness is a choice and once you begin to choose it, you’ll be amazed at how sweet and easy your life can unfold.

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Manifesting the perfect job.

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

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You have asked for people to send in their ‘manifest wish list’ – mine is for my husband and I would be grateful for some help with it. My husband has finished a very good job (contract) abroad last year and ever since then has not had any great success in finding a good enough job (or something even better than the last employment) was. I wonder how would you tackle this manifesting?

 

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Thank you for your email and for the opportunity to support you in your process. It’s always difficult to tackle a problem-creation from afar, but if I ask for Divine guidance to support me in typing the perfect words and inspirations that will inspire, guide, uplift and direct you and your husband to the greatest connection to your desires, then I know whatever comes through will be perfect for now.

  Therefore, having made that request from Spirit myself, let me suggest to you to begin there as well. Ask Spirit to handle this issue. Hand it over by praying, “Spirit, I ask that my husband find his ideal employment in perfect timing, with perfect pay and wonderful benefits; in the ideal setting for his highest growth and safety; in the ideal package for our relationship and family to flourish in love, harmony and prosperity; in a manner that is easy, natural and almost magical put his ideal position in his path and make it easily recognizable, comfortable to commit to and enough of a challenge to inspire him to be excited and enthusiast about the prospects and the future. Spirit, make this endeavor be fulfilling and successful and support my husband in following his calling, his path and purpose and know that whatever form his next position takes that it is perfectly in alignment with his ultimate desires. 

  “I surrender to the Divine Order of life now. I know that whatever happens from here is exactly what is meant to happen and in perfect order for our highest good and growth right now. I surrender to the law of attraction at work in our lives. I surrender to the knowledge that like attracts like and therefore, if our worst fears come true, I know that is just the law of attraction at work. All is in perfect order now and at any moment we can change what we’re attracting by changing our thoughts. However, in the mean time, I let go of all of my resistance to my fears now. 

“I surrender to my worst fears happening now. Since I know that there are no mistakes and that the Divine Order is at hand, I surrender to whatever is meant to be as what is happening now, even if this looks like my worst fears. If the worst-case scenario happens and (name the scenario- we lose our home, we have to move, we lose our medical benefits, we’re homeless, we lose our children – whatever those fears are), then I know we’ll still survive. We are survivors and if that what is in store for us, so be it, we’ll get through it. I accept the Divine Order of life and I am at peace, no matter what. I will no longer fight these fears because I know that just attracts them to us.

  “I ask Spirit to handle all of our fears, worries, concerns, anxieties, guilty feelings, regrets, frustrations, and any other negative emotion that has come up for either of us during this process. I agree to no longer worry about our finances, our future, our retirement, our family’s well being because I know this is YOUR responsibility, not mine. I hand ALL of my fears and worries over to the Christ mind within, the Universal mind that is the essence of who we are. I hand all of my frustrations and any and every negative feeling or pre-judged obstacle over to this inner presence where I know it is instantly and immediately taken care of.

  “I surrender all of my pre-judged ideas about how a job will or must manifest over to the Universe. I surrender any and all assumptions about my husband, his job prospects, the employers, the state of the country, the state of our world or any other belief that is taking my faith away from SOURCE and putting faith in external circumstances instead. Right now, I put my faith in the source within to manifest perfectly into our lives – fulfillment, opportunity, prosperity, harmony and success. I know that no person, place or thing is the source of our supply and I am at peace knowing the Divine Mind within me, is the one and only source of all our good.

  “I intend to see for our family the ideal scenario playing out now. I intend to support this process by having faith, by putting God/The Universe in control of all of my fears and in control of this situation now. I intend to be at Peace no matter what and to envision success. Success and fulfillment is the primary focus of my thoughts. I support my husband by knowing all is well and the ideal career is happening now in perfect timing. I intend to envision, affirm and be grateful for the complete, ideal manifestation now.

  “I am grateful for Spirit’s work in our lives now. I am grateful that the ideal position is now at hand. I am grateful that we are Divinely protected and taken care of. I am grateful to know that all is well and that all of my husband’s desires for an ideal job is made manifest now. I am grateful that all I have to do is relax in this knowledge and be grateful for every sign of land, every moment we share and every breath we take. I am at Peace. I know all is well and I give thanks for the perfect manifestation now. 

So be it! Amen”

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How to Leave Old Vibrations in the Past and Launch Positive Intentions for Future

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

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I love January – there’s just something magical about realigning with my intentions and goals at the start of a new year. However, there’s always that particular ‘resolution’ that shows up year after year and what do you know – here it is again; the same resolution that I’ve had for 10 years running is still there, not entirely ignored but not entirely fulfilled either!

Last year I said I was going to spend more time with my children… well, I guess I wasn’t specific enough because although I spent time with them, was it really more time? Was that time really better than or more attentive than the year before?

Last year I said I was going to pay better attention to my honey’s needs, be sweeter and more flexible during disagreements and make magical moments a part of our every day existence. Hmm… did I really achieve this? Well… not entirely. And, I better not send him a feedback survey as I won’t be able to maintain my ’sweetness’ intention when I disagree!

There are others as well… I didn’t accomplish my mental, spiritual or physical goals consistently and oh, here’s that one about organization: “I am organized, productive, efficient, and reliable! I return calls promptly and willingly and my email inbox is organized and easy!” Yikes! I clearly do not understand what I wrote here… my office is more like a ‘bull in a china-shop’ and ‘my calls and inbox are back-logged’ now more than ever!

Okay, looking at my unmet resolutions as well as my victories, I can see that although I did not accomplish them ALL, I did have a great number of victories and have more to be grateful and excited about than the opposite. Allow me to remind myself, by reminding YOU:

We are conscious creators! If we don’t like the weather, then we get to re-create it! However, if we don’t like ourselves, then we cannot expect to change anything consistently. We must first address the primary source of our foul climate before we can move on to creating paradise.

The source of our ‘foul climates’ will always be our internal negative thoughts and limiting beliefs. Now, having said this have you ever wondered why sometimes you’re feeling really positive about life and you still get ‘bummer’ creations?

I call this my petulant Blue Shoes Vibration. I have a feeling that you have your own Petulant Vibration about something, so see if this doesn’t fit somewhere in your life.

I have a regrettable and at this point, entirely embarrassing confession to make about my navy-blue shoes problem. You see, I am unable to attract navy-blue shoes that are comfortable! I know… I’m supposed to be teaching folks how to manifest and here I am unable to manifest something as simple as navy shoes that are also comfortable!!!

Here’s the scope of my problem. In the last 2 years, I have gone through more navy blue heals than I care to admit. I feel as though I’ve walked a groove into the DSW aisles; I’ve searched through Nordstrom’s and then Payless and every shoe store in between. I have even manifested two pair of free navy shoes (random gifts from friends, who knew nothing about my personal navy-shoe-drought) but they have all turned out to be nothing more than a one-night-stand!

In fact, last month, I wore my newest pair of beautiful navy-blue shoes at an all day seminar. When I bought them I was so very hopeful. That evening, when I reached out to push the up button on the elevator, I simultaneously slam dunked those navy pumps into the trash can!

How did I get to this terrible state of possibly never being able to wear any of my navy suits again? I repeatedly and consistently demonized those navy-blue shoes. Every chance I got I’d rant about how I can ‘never find any navy blue shoes that fit!’ Now, being the powerful creator that I am… it’s true. And, until I change my focus from ‘what is’ to ‘what I want instead’, it’s vey unlikely that this dilemma of mine will ever go away!

Now, how does this relate to making this year the best year of your life? Let me explain…

We all have our petulant vibrations! Any source of disconnection that we experience emotionally will manifest physically unless we are more aligned more of the time. This of course is where meditation, yoga, prayer, EFT, essential oils or any of the other ‘tools’ you use for realigning yourself are useful.

However, I also find it extremely supportive to look back on the year and ask myself where might I have a ‘petulant navy-blue shoe’ dilemma in the other areas of my life? And, I suggest you pay particular notice of any area of your life where you are particularly self-critical.

I’ve heard Abraham (with Jerry and Esther Hicks) say, “your vibration is always where you last left it”. This is as true for me and my navy-blue shoe problem as it is for any other unfulfilled dream or goal that I might have. Thus, your vibration (for the good, the bad, and the ugly) from last year will project itself into this year unless you intentionally re-set your intentions and vibrations to higher levels of ease, effortlessness, love, peace, and harmony.

If you want this year to be your best year ever, then take some time to uncover any petulant vibrations (thoughts, limitations, patterns of negative experiences or behaviors) and get rid of them!

Use your affirmations or a vision board or your favorite creative visualization or emotional freedom technique, but do yourself a favor and use this month as the time to kick off any old shoes that no longer fit! And, take on an entirely new intention of creating the best year of your life.

Happy Manifesting!

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Chain letters – Manifesting & superstition- Universal truths – Beliefs

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

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What’s the truth about Chain Letters? Will something really bad actually happen if I don’t send it to then others? Will something great happen if I do? How should I feel about responding to chain letters?

 

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This is a matter of personal belief and whether or not you can maintain your connection while being confronted with a superstition. Superstitions themselves are NEVER true. Nothing outside of ourselves can control our experience unless we give it the power to do so.

However, your point of attraction and your ability to maintain your connection can easily be swayed depending on the attention or credibility that you subconsciously/consciously give to these superstitions. In some countries, certain superstitions have become so powerful, documented, and ingrained that it’s easier to follow the superstition, maintain a positive vibration by doing so, and be in harmony with a positive experience than to fight the current of the collective consciousness. It’s easier to move with the herd than to fight our own “what if?” Certainly in some countries it’s better to go along with the superstition than to have to deal with your indoctrinated grandmother’s wrath.

For example, I’m reading A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry, a novel set in India, that is full of superstitions and their effects on the health, welfare, and happiness of the people. Intrigued, by some of the superstitions, I’ve read further and discovered for example, that about ten thousand people die from a poisonous snakebite every year in India. One superstition is that tantriks (dancing, ritualistic sort of medicine men/women) cure people of snakebites and according to articles I’ve read, the tantriks, have a success rate equal to (or better than) that of the allopathic doctors. Of course, if the snake was non poisonous or didn’t get a full-fang mouthful of its’ victim then naturally the tantrik’s cure works easily. Additionally, as the law of Creation would dictate that if the victim BELIEVES “tantriks are the ONLY way to cure me” then this plays a more important role than any scientific evidence of a tantriks real abilities or lack there of.

Therefore, the real question is do you BELIEVE something bad will happen if you don’t send the chain letter? Do you feel even remotely negative at the thought that it could be true, and if you don’t act now you’ll regret it later? Do you wonder and slightly fear the repercussions of not acting?

The opportunity for growth here would be to recognize whether or not you are doing something with the motivation of fear (negative emotion) or the motivation of love (positive emotion). When we forward (or choose not to forward) a chain letter and we feel positive, then regardless of the documented cases, we will be uplifted naturally. However, when we engage in the circle of fear, and forward (or choose not to forward) an email that swears some ill-fate will come upon us if we do not, then we are placing our power in some wicked outside force that we have no control over and eventually we will become one of the case numbers, even if it isn’t this time. It boils down to how do we feel about it?

Let me give you another example, there are a few mainstream superstitions running through America that look something like this: “You don’t ever want to get sick, if you don’t have health insurance! Heaven help the man/woman that gets sick without insurance!” And “I have to have car insurance now! I don’t want to get in an accident or get pulled over!”

Getting sick doesn’t have anything to do with having or not having health insurance. Getting into an auto accident or getting a speeding ticket has nothing to do with having or not having car insurance, alone. However, the feeling of fear from not having the insurance is what could attract the illness or accident to us.

For example, if you take away your insurance, would you be afraid to drive? Would you be afraid to go on a trip without health insurance? Would you be afraid of doing certain sports, or other things if your health insurance lapsed? If you currently do not have insurance, do you ever wonder or think about “what if…?” Most of us would answer yes and therefore, we keep insurance. Not because we’re superstitious (necessarily) but because if FEELS better to be protected. We gain the peace of mind that comes with the insurance and therefore, it’s easier to maintain our connection by owning insurance than to fight the fear of NOT owning insurance. We as a society feel positive when we own insurance and feel vulnerable when we do not. One feels good and therefore is attractive to positive experiences including health and security. The other feels scary, and therefore attracts ill health, traffic violations, and even more serious negative experiences depending on how long or how much we’ve fretted and worried over the issue.

It doesn’t matter whether the chain letter or insurance is a superstition. It only matters that we maintain our connection! Therefore, for now, do what FEELS good. Follow your inner guidance that will always lead you to a place that FEELS better. Positive feelings attract positive experiences, always. If for now, it feels best to forward a chain letter, then do it. Keeping in mind that as you grow in awareness, you will grow in your ability to take personal responsibility for all your choices and experiences and will be more deliberate and protective of your power. You will eventually get to a place where giving your power away to ANY external circumstance feels less positive, than guiding your experience from within. The optimal state consists of being so connected to source that we feel the absolute unlimitedness of our birthright and have no need for external securities. This state comes from continually connecting to source, living intentionally, focusing on our inner-being as the one and only source and supply and choosing all of our actions out of love, peace and harmony. In this state, superstitions have NO power over us.

I’m working on this! However, in the mean time, I’ll be keeping my insurance because it feels better! So, in the end – always do what keeps you connected, and feeling the wellness.

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Re-creating past to attract a profoundly positive future

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

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Dear Anisa
How does my imagination work when I have imagined receiving a passing mark on exams that I’ve already taken but haven’t received the grade yet? I’ll get the grades back in a few weeks but can my imagination change the marks that have already been awarded?

 

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Yes, it is absolutely possible to influence and create the outcome of a seemingly, previously forged future event using the power of your mind.

The reason is because the materialization does not occur until we lay eyes on it! It is in the observation that it becomes a reality.

Quantum Science has proven that it is the observation of matter that triggers the actual materialization. Further study within the quantum fields also supports what mystics have said all along, “We are unlimited.”

When we realize that there are infinitely many non-observable alternate universes, as one interpretation of Quantum Mechanics suggests, we align ourselves with creating a positive future no matter what our past experience may be ‘forecasting’.

We are unlimited – pure potentiality. Therefore, we have the power and the potential to impact, attract, and influence all things in our lives. Now, my personal truth is that I find it particularly easier to influence something that I haven’t already observed. And, better yet, I find it far easier to manifest something that I haven’t previously created a negative expectation around.

You see, the more I ponder the negative ‘what ifs’ the greater the probability of creating the negative outcomes. And, the more I expect an outcome to materialize, the more likely it will. (Expectation does not always come in the form of confidence. It can also come in the form of fear, worry, anxiety, etc.)

For example, it’s a well-known medical phenomenon that often when a diagnosis is revealed, the previously healthy, strong and active patient that didn’t know they were ’sick’ becomes rapidly ill. It’s the act of observation that creates the sudden shift in the materialization of disease, not the disease itself.

I’m not going to suggest that we avoid doctors in order to avoid diagnoses; however, I will suggest that one can choose to be acutely aware of the ‘observation’ trigger and choose to keep their observations in proportion to the positive and optimistic outcome they intend instead.

Creating your future when the creative moment has passed (like the exam has passed) can be a little awkward. Never the less, it is absolutely possible to change any and all future experiences that we have not already observed. Additionally, we can always change our reaction to the observation and change our end result experience as well.

When the ‘creative moment’ has passed, it often requires us to literally go into our past to re-create our future. Let me qualify the fact that our vibration is always where we last left it and this moment is the one that holds the attractive power to create our lives. The caveat is – if the past creative moment held the energy of nervousness, fear, anxiety, or worry, for example, then imagine what outcome is likely to be a match to those negative emotions?! Not ideal!

And, it’s most likely that the present moment is still energetically aligned with the perceptions, assumptions, and judgments of that past event. Therefore, we want to align with a more positive future by altering the energetic (emotional) structure of that past creative moment!

In simple English – you can walk your time line backwards and re-create your past to be positively influential of the future you desire. The Creative Mechanism (God/The Universe) does NOT perceive the difference between reality and our fantasy. IT only perceives and radiates back to us like energy.

Therefore, if you were raised in a grass hut with little to no food but you were willing to go back into your past and imagine a life of opulence, your prosperity consciousness would change and thus your experience of wealth would change. It doesn’t matter that it’s a lie! It only matters that your energy, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions are now more aligned with the flow of wealth.

How to re-create your past to be aligned with the infinite positive possibilities: Break it down!

I find it helpful to break down the past contributory moment or experience in order to change my observation of what was and my expectation of what might be.

The goal is to re-create the past experience emotionally and in our memory banks into a positive, optimistic, confident energetic structure. Confident observations of the past will yield a more affirmative future and in the case of an exam, better grades.

When I become aware of a past creative moment that is still currently creating my expectation of the future, I find it helpful to dissect it with clarifying questions. By clarifying the negative structure of the past, you can more fully and wholly re-create it.

For example:

  • What happened?
  • What was I thinking before the event?
  • When did I first feel negative before the event and why?
  • What judgments do I have about how I behaved?
  • What judgments do I have about how others behaved?
  • Who and what do I blame for this situation?
  • What should I have done that I didn’t do?
  • What should others have done that they didn’t do?
  • What’s the payoff to holding onto my resentments about this situation?
  • What do I gain by being angry and not letting this go or evolve?
  • What does this even remind me of?
  • When did a similar situation happen before and why?

Come up with your own questions that will prompt you in digging deep into the past experience just enough to clarify where your fear, nervousness, and worry actually originate.

Once you have a clear picture of what happened, go through each and every negative thought and emotion about the experience and write down the opposite.

Using the exam example, re-creating the past, might look something like:

“I am so thankful that I felt completely prepared for that exam. I was strong, confident and self-assured. I had truly prepared for the test and was proud of my efforts, my commitment and my steadfast intention to succeed. And, you know, it’s always been this way for me! I’ve always done well on tests! It’s like I’m a natural when it comes to taking exams and putting my knowledge to the test. I thrive on the pressure of an exam and absolutely love the thrill of letting the answers flow effortlessly from my amazing brain! I am centered, confident, and connected to unlimited knowledge and I trust myself. I know that I am intelligent and capable. I am grateful to have experienced a sense of peace and inner strength before, during and after the exam. When I was taking the exam, I felt myself knowing the answers instantly. And, the knowledge and confidence flowed effortlessly. I feel so blessed that school, tests, and studying has always been so easy for me. I feel so richly fortunate to be an incredible student with Divinely Guided intelligence. I am grateful to have made excellent marks on the exam.”

I realize that I may be asking you to lie. You may feel like a fool saying things about your past that are completely and totally untrue.

But, remember, the only one that cares whether your ’story’ is true or not, is you! The Universe doesn’t care whether it’s true! The Big U simply responds objectively to your most dominant thoughts and emotions and delivers to you the experience that is absolutely a match.

Rest assured that if what you want does not manifest, it’s not that God or the Universe has forsaken you. It’s not that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for you. It’s always, 100% of the time Divinely Ordered according to ALL of your wants, needs, desires, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions and ALL of those who you are co-creating with!

Additionally, it’s always a match to where you are vibrationally right now. Find peace with the fact that the Universe is impartial. When you master your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions, you will master your life and your past will not predict your future, unless you allow it to.

Be willing to play with changing your past to be as fabulous and full of blessings as you would have liked. Take on this new way of retelling your story and see if your life doesn’t dramatically improve to reflect your new ’story’! I dare you!?!?

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When Law of attraction Seems To Fail ?

Friday, October 30th, 2009

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I am trying to keep my focus and energy positive however, for the first time in my life I am facing foreclosure. I have perfect credit and have my whole life. How do I have peace when there is such a strict time line for the universe to work? I saw the secret 3 months ago and began then to manifest a buyer to the house that’s been on the market since Dec 06. I was at peace because I had time, and trusted. I dropped the price drastically and then let it go, confident. When this last month rolled around with still no buyer and no more money to make the payment, I became so discouraged and now am having panic and not sleeping. I even had 7 other people helping manifest a buyer for us this whole time. If we don’t get a buyer in the next 4 weeks, we lose our house, my perfect credit and will be left with a huge amount of credit card debt we used to fix up the house, not to mention our profit. It is getting harder by the day to remain in an energy state necessary, yet I must. I even came to terms with being okay if I must face these burdens. But it doesn’t seem to be helping the panic and fear. I let go of all my other intentions to focus only on this one now. I even tried NOT focusing on this one and only on wealth in whatever manner. But so far all the universe sends me are dimes daily.” – help?!

 

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Law of Attraction Help

 

Sometimes the best way to figure out how to create something better is to simply return to the beginning. Let’s re-examine how to consciously harness the law of attraction and intentionally employ the Power of the Universal Mechanism:

In reality there are only three steps:
1) Ask for what you want.
2) Allow it to happen.
3) Take action in the direction of your dreams.

It’s easy, right?! Here’s what usually happens:

We ask, attempt to allow, and take action. When what we want is not appearing to manifest, we cease and desist step 2 – the allowing. We stop allowing what we want by judging what is as ‘wrong’, ‘negative’ or ‘not in alignment’ with all that we desire. The truth is we are getting exactly what is in alignment with our most dominant energy- always, without exception. Therefore, no matter how certain we are that we’ve been focused on positive thoughts, and there’s no way the Universe has been responding correctly, it’s not the Universe that is ‘off-center’ but our own consciousness and corresponding energetic web of intentions, thoughts, emotions, and beliefs that are attracting our experience.

Let’s break it down further according to both what usually happens and how we would choose to create if we could be more conscious and intentional with the Law of Attraction:

 

What we usually do – that postpones the fulfillment of our goals: What we would prefer to do – that actualizes the fulfillment of our goals:
1) We ask for what we want. 1) We ask for what we want.
2) We try to allow ‘it’ to happen. However, we just aren’t clear how ‘allowing it’ really feels especially when it’s critically urgent or important. 2) We allow ‘it’ to happen with positive, unwavering faith and expectation while taking inspired action.
3) We review what is and judge it as wrong, incomplete, or not what we are wanting. 3) We review what is and choose to embrace the current reality as Divinely Ordered and Divinely Perfect. We choose to find those things that bring us joy and expand our experience of love.
4) We again ask for what we want, only this time we are slightly more aware of the sense of worry, fear, or doubt that is creeping in due to the lack of proof that what we want is actually going to materialize. Sometimes, we can feel momentarily realigned because we have chosen to do our work (affirmations, visualizations, EFT etc.) 4) We again ask for what we want and this time we choose to raise our level of clarity, certainty and faith even further (through positive affirmations, visualizations, meditation, treasure-mapping, EFT, mind-entrainment, the 72 Names of God, etc.) We re-affirm our intention with deep, profound conviction.
5) We take physical, mental, and spiritual action in the direction of our dreams occasionally our hope is intermingled with frustration, apathy, fear, pride, or even sense of rebellion. 5) We take physical, mental, and spiritual action in the direction of your dreams with patience, persistence and a sense of reverence. We seek out joy, love, beauty, and wholeness as a daily experience.
6) We want to trust that all is well but we can’t seem to get rid of the mental rumblings, “I’m not good enough”, or “maybe the “Secret” law of attraction is bogus”. 6) We choose to trust that all is well. When a negative thought comes up, we gently surrender it by intentionally choosing to embrace and remember our unlimitedness.
7) We look at reality and notice what’s congruent and incongruent. We dismiss what’s ‘good’ as not good enough and we bemoan what’s ‘bad’. 7) We look at reality; we notice what’s congruent and incongruent. We give thanks for both. We refocus on our dream and actively pursue love and joy.
8) We want to realign our thoughts and use the law of attraction. However, we feel frustrated and are compelled to be more ‘realistic’. We prepare for ‘not having what we want.’ 8) We choose to consciously re-adjust our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors according to greater congruency and alignment with our goals.
9) We choose to say, “It’s all good” but we feel, “it’s not all good.” 9) We choose to say and feel, “It’s all good – all the time.”
10) We ask again for what we want. However, we are even more resistant to ‘failing’ and we give the Universe one last chance to give us what we want. 10) We choose to be willing to succeed and willing to fail and again ask for what we want with clear intention.
11) We give up. We let it go and assume that what we want isn’t going to happen. 11) We prepare to receive our good and take an active role in finding more joyful and loving experiences.
12) ** If we have really given up and are focusing on the things that bring us joy, we will see either the materialization of what we want or at the very least signs of land.

**If we gave it up but underneath feel sad, apathetic, or disappointed, we will continue to experience signs of land but fail to recognize them as anything other than ‘driftwood.’

12) We repeat the above process with every new idea and with greater clarity. We realize that we are so grateful that the Divine Order reigns supreme as we wouldn’t want it any other way. Now, with more understanding about what we really want, and how all that we desire is already melding together, we continue to refine, define, clarify, adjust, give thanks, take action, and prepare to receive.

 

For me, it is truly humbling to know that even though I know the process above and I know which path is the more optimal road for creating all that I desire, I too find myself in the middle of the self-sabotaging road of fear, doubt, and spiritual disconnection!

Our work is to be willing to constantly but gently, continue to readjust and get back on the faithful track that ‘all is well’ and ‘I am indeed a fabulous creator.’ As you can see from the two columns above, there’s a rhythm to conscious creation: First we ask for what we want, then we accept, love, and allow what is, then we seek more joy and love through inspired action, then we ask for what we want with greater clarity and begin the process again.

Watch for language signals that indicate ‘how’ we are creating:

  • “trying to stay positive” indicates “not succeeding at being positive.”
  • “Only sending dimes” indicates “I don’t believe I’m going to get enough of what I need in time.”
  • “Discouraged, panic, not sleeping” indicates the feelings that precipitated panic were there all along and now they’ve grown in their negative impact. If we are honest, they’ve been under the surface the entire time.
  • “.coming to terms with facing these burdens doesn’t seem to help with the panic and fear” indicates you aren’t really at peace with the burdens. Panic and fear will not be present when you are at peace – they cannot hold the same vibrational space.

Having explained why we create the way we do, I’ll suggest a few things you can do about it.

When we’ve already jumped overboard without a life preserver, the first order of business is to surrender to the sea! This does not mean we stop swimming but it does mean that we accept the fact that we must deal with the issue at hand. Fighting the water robs the precious energy that we need to survive.

Accept what is as Divinely Perfect – even when you cannot possibly understand “how?!?!” It’s too late now to wish it hadn’t happened. The only thing left to do is allow it to be. When you surRender to what is as all part of the Divine Plan you render it powerless over you. By accepting the Divine Order to any situation, you stop giving the negative aspects of the problem your attention and neutralize the impact of unhelpful reactions. SurRendering feels positive, hopeful, and peaceful. It does not feel fearful, doubtful, sad, or apathetic. If you think you’ve surRendered but continue to feel disconnected, then you are still fighting the water and wasting precious energy.

Once you’ve stopped the energy leakage by accepting Divine Order, you will feel a sense of courageous peace. Your mottos become “I can handle this”, “this too shall pass”, and “bring it on!”

Now, if I were in this situation, I would take a day to EFT (use Emotional Freedom Technique) to neutralize every fearful thought I’ve ever had about this situation; all the past memories I can conjure up that remind me of this situation, and all the thoughts and feelings that are negative about the consequences. Not only will this deepen your ability to surRender to the Divine Order, but it will also neutralize the negative vibrations that have been creating the opposite of what you want from the very beginning. From this new place of neutrality, you can now begin again to ask for what you want with greater clarity, certainty, conviction and faith.

It’s not over – your conscious creation capacity is never over. Your work is to learn from what is, trust that all is well and continue to redirect your intentions. Take a deep breath and start swimming with conviction and you’ll not only get through this but you’ll find that the outcome was absolutely part of the Divine Plan for your life.

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How Bad Things Happen to Good People?

Friday, October 30th, 2009

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The Universal Laws operate on a consistent, orderly, impartial and uniform basis.

Although this truth is harsh and even unfathomable when we think about the victims of September 11th, 2001; or the abuse or murder of a child, or even the senseless destruction of our planet, for example, the Universal Law is operating in Divine Order, never the less.

I’ll be honest, although I have my theories, I don’t ‘get’ the meaning or the purpose of it all, and I certainly would not be so arrogant as to proclaim to have the ONLY answer to this profound question or to ‘How did they attract this?’

Never the less, I am unshakeable in my gratitude for the consistency of the Laws. From my perspective, it is this truth – that the laws are consistent and dependable – that makes life livable.

If I thought that some indiscriminate force could simply bluster into my life ripping my world apart, as if the law of chaos granted the winds of destruction the right to randomly wreak havoc, then life and my role in it would be meaningless. If there really was such a ‘random force’ I’d scream, ‘then what’s the point?!?!’

On the other hand, there is also no way that anyone could convince me that an infant ‘attracted’ abuse through negative thinking. That just doesn’t match what we know about the pure love that is an infant’s gift.

Therefore, for my personal peace, I have reached for an explanation that attempts to consolidate what I believe to be true, as of today, about the Universal Laws and the Spiritual nature of life.

First, there is the fact that Creation is Teleological. Teleology is the study of final causes – especially as it relates to circumstance and events leading up to the final event.

We see this law time after time in nature. For example, the Lodgepole Pine Tree, the most widespread tree in the British Columbia province, cannot propagate without its cone being exposed to extreme heat, as in the heat from a forest fire. No fire (death) = no new trees (birth).

When we think about the ramifications of this fact, we then realize that it was not the lightning bolt that caused the fire, but the end result (natural reforestation) that indeed inspired the original lightning bolt and thus the fire.

Then we have the second verity that there are multiple levels of consciousness and many layers of energetic frequencies, intentions and super-intentions that collectively co-create our experiences.

For example, one such layer of consciousness has been observed in the study of past-lives. Whether we believe in reincarnation or not doesn’t negate the fact that millions of patients have discovered that their present day illness (allergy, disease, phobia, etc.) is connected to strong emotions, thoughts, actions, experiences (etc.) that occurred during a past life. Once discovered, many patients are able to recover from their malady.

Carl Jung, well-known psychologist and mystic, called this the ‘collective unconscious’ or ‘universal memory’. This of course implies that we are collectively influenced by the thoughts, emotions, and beliefs of the collective whole.

Thus we are now led to yet another layer of consciousness: the collective consciousness aka the global consciousness.

Here’s an interesting fact that illustrates how influential the ‘global consciousness’ can be:

There’s an African culture that believes all children born on Wednesdays are the devil’s offspring. To prove their belief is true all one has to do is look to the fact that more than half of the crimes committed in their culture are by those Wednesday children. Is it Wednesday that causes the problem or the global belief, we ask?

Combining the principle of teleology with the many layers of consciousness we find answers. I’m not suggesting the answers are satisfactory or comforting, but they are at least answers that are congruent with what we believe about the Universal Laws of creation.

Consider, for example, the evolutionary changes that, as far as I can tell, always ensues chaos, destruction and tragedy. We can’t help but wonder if somehow super-intentions along with the multiple layers of consciousness were at work inspiring the end result?

Viktor Frankl, considered one of the most profoundly influential psychiatrists of our time wrote in his book, Man’s Search for Meaning:

“We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms–to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” (-Viktor Frankl, M.D., Ph.D., (March 26, 1905 – September 2, 1997) was an Austrian neurologist, psychiatrist, and Holocaust survivor.)

Imagine for a moment that Victor Frankl’s story, listed as one of the ten most influential books in America, had never happened? Is it possible that the Divine Order (possibly his soul-choice) inspired not only his Nazi concentration camp experience but his survival as a match to his higher calling; a match to a super-intention? If his life purpose was to arouse the spiritual liberation of millions of souls that found his work then who are we to say that what occurred for him was not a match?

Considering the teleological nature of life, the multiple layers of consciousness, and super-intentions we find at the very minimum, food for thought.

This does not cancel out the impermeable fact that we still have free will and when combined with awareness, we can at any point choose to intentionally direct our experience using the Law of Attraction. It just may be that the way we ‘thought’ we wanted it and the way we ‘really’ wanted it are not always the same.

By accepting that all is well, all the time, we actually tap into the stream of well being that will take us through one ‘negative’ experience and into the meaning and purpose beyond. This is where passionate living can really flourish.

I was at a Dr. David Hawkin’s lecture (he’s the best-selling author of Power vs. Force) when something he said shook me to the core. With as much emphasis as a mid-day yawn he said, (I paraphrase):

A soul chooses its date of death prior to birth. And, on that date they simply transition from this plane to the next. Like a butterfly squished on your car window, they just keep flapping their ethereal wings.

What if our souls make choices before we arrive concerning our time of death and our purpose while in physical form? Wouldn’t these decisions then co-create with the intentions and beliefs of the moment to fulfill this ‘fate by soul-choice?’

One last personal example, the magnitude of which I did comprehend until many, many years later, happened the summer before my freshman year of high school. My best friend, Zena, was killed in a car accident. I was devastated. And, I was angry. I was angry because I had been denied one last visit with Zena before her accident. My father said no because he needed my help in the family antique business.

Losing Zena AND being denied the freedom to see her caused an internal chain of events that became the foundation upon which I create my life today. It was this loss that caused me to fearlessly seize my life. My motto became, “I will never let an opportunity go by without seizing it. I don’t care what the consequences may be. If I have to defy orders, fail, get into trouble and risk everything to be free and fulfill my dreams – I will. Never again will I be denied.” You see, Zena was a poet and I still have her poems today. The poems she wrote as an 11-year-old child were about living your dreams. Zena’s spirit has never stopped inspiring me.

Of course my original motto got me into quite a bit of trouble, as you can imagine. However, I eventually settled into a more vibrationally aligned manifesto: “I choose to live every moment fearlessly and passionately, as if it were my last opportunity

Without this experience, in my soul, I know my life would have been very, very different and I also know I would not be living the life of my dreams today, not the way I do now.

As a mother, this wouldn’t ease my pain but as a spiritual student, I find all of these and other spiritual truths helpful in finding meaning within suffering.

And, what if that was both the cause and the purpose?

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Do last-minute fears sabotage your success?

Friday, October 30th, 2009

If you’ve asked for it get ready because it may just be coming straight at you!

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Have you ever wondered why just before you get what you want things sort of go hay-wire? I’ve noticed that often, just when we think everything is finally about to come together, things just fall apart like crazy.

We can practically taste our victory and suddenly we hit a wall; old patterns of fear and self-doubt return and our dreams begin to slip through our fingers. It feels like there’s nothing we can do about it – but that’s just one perspective.

Let me explain.

Yesterday, we were playing 3-on-3 baseball. The team batting has to hit the ball and run from home to second base and back before getting out. On our team, Parker, my 10-year-old, was pitching, my honey was in right-center field and I was in left-center field. We’re heading into the last inning and my team was down by one point (8-to-7). We bat last so we still had a chance to win but we had to get Johnie out now! Johnie, my nephew on the opposing team, is one of those triple threats (athletic-and-talented-and-gorgeous) types and every time he hit the ball it was way over my head or simply too far out of reach.

This time, instead of trying to figure out whether or not I was precisely out far enough and strategically placed mid-field, I decided to use a little intentionality to tilt the scales in my favor. (I don’t consider this cheating. he could do it too!)

I commanded (a sure-fire way to get the manifestation Gods working on my behalf) that the ball come directly to me.

Then, I asked my intuition, “where do I need to stand”? I felt guided to my left, leaving this huge whole to my right. My honey’s hollering, “Over Anisa” and shaking his arms wildly, motioning for me to move over. However, I couldn’t hear him. I was tuned into my competitive intuition. Instantly, when I knew I had come to the perfect spot on the field I just froze with overwhelming certainty. I KNEW he would hit the ball right to me.

Just then, Johnie gets up to bat and I suddenly realize that I’ve just asked the Universe to put me in position to get pelted with my nephew’s power-ball!!!! I thought, “Anisa, are you crazy?! If you miss this ball you’re going down!”

Yikes! I knew that I had settled into the command and that I was absolutely about to receive his ball. There was this sudden fear that came over me that I was indeed going down! I tried to shake it off but there just wasn’t time to get re-aligned.

Parker pitches the ball and BAM! Johnie hits a rock-solid line drive right to me. I clicked into this ‘I’ll stop it no matter what’ place of fearlessness (or was it stupidity?!) and Whap! I stopped it alright! I put my body in front of that line drive and forgot all about the mitt on my left hand (you know, the leather thingy that most players use at a time like this to catch the ball?!?) Instead, I used my inner knee! It bounced off me and up over my head and behind me.

OUCH! And, Ouch! (Yes, I’ll do anything for a good lesson for my fellow law of attraction friends – that would be you!)

What I realized was that this little experiment of mine was a lot like many of our everyday creations. We ask for what we want, we even command it into existence, follow our inner guidance, and even stop at that perfect spot to receive our desires – then, we freak out!

We let our fears begin to run rampant.

What if I really get this relationship of my dreams?
What if I really get this new home, new job, avalanche of abundance?
What if I am not capable of handling it when it comes my way?
What if my life gets turned upside down?
What if. What if. What if. (all the bad things I’m afraid of happen?!?!)

Just when we are poised and ready to make the play of our lives, we choke on our fears and cause the entire thing to go awry!

In my little baseball afternoon, it wasn’t that big of a deal -
I pretended like it didn’t hurt, ran to the ball and threw it to my cut-off honey, only to miss Johnie at home by less than a foot! He was safe and we lost the game.

However, for our more important dreams, I ask you to consider whether or not your last-minute doubts are sabotaging your success?

Did you know that 90% of your creation is complete before you ever see ANY evidence of its existence? Think about the implications of this.

This means that your ‘dreamboat’ is 90% complete before you ever see even a remote glimpse of the sails! By the time you see even the slightest glimpse of something remotely resembling your ‘dreamboat’ or parts-thereof, it’s almost completely constructed.

Unfortunately, most of us will look at the idea of that ‘dreamboat’ coming our way and think ‘what if I can’t steer this thing when I get it?’ or ‘what if it’s not what I want?’ and instantly cause our dreams to become lost-at-sea.

What if instead of pondering all the things that might go wrong when our ‘dreams’ are made manifest, we wondered.

What if I were capable of handling whatever came my way?
What if I were strong and centered and sure of myself?
What if I had complete confidence in myself?
What if I could simply trust in the Universe to deliver my bounty?
What if I could trust in the Divine to keep me safe?
What if I could trust that the Universe is constantly conspiring on my behalf?

What about looking at the things you say you want in your life? Consider whether or not there’s resistance? Where might there be a self-limiting hang-up?

Where are you standing in the field, knowing that you’re about to receive all of your bounty, only to be standing in fear? … knowing it’s coming to you, but once it gets here you’re afraid you’re going to bobble-it because it’s scary to get what we want.

For me and my baseball dreams, I’ll get my chance for a re-match – Johnie’s home-runs are numbered! And, in the mean time, I intend to do a little self-reflecting about where else I may be sabotaging any great plays!

Happy Manifesting!

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J Curve Law of attraction Setbacks Obstacles !

Friday, October 30th, 2009

 

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I wish a new car as well as the income to keep it on the road and pay all related expenses.

 

 

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When our feeling nature and our thinking nature are in harmony, our conscious desires will be fulfilled. The challenge for many conscious creators is maintaining the habitual thoughts and corresponding feelings long enough for our ‘wishes’ to manifest.

There are many techniques we can use to accomplish this habitual state of harmonious alignment. And, there’s more good news. When practiced regularly and persistently these ‘techniques’ will transform from a ‘tool to be applied’ to a state of being.

It’s this state of being that we, as law of attraction students, optimally seek to obtain. This ‘being state’ is the consciousness of the spirit within as our one and only source and supply; it’s a state that is consumed with ever-
increasing love, peace, certainty, and patience.

Ultimately, as we learn to seek this state (as opposed to material possessions, for example), we automatically align with our true desires and the vibrational essence necessary to fulfill all of our dreams.

It’s important to fully understand the ultimate goal that I’m defining here. The ultimate goal is to become fully aware and understand that it is the Spirit within that does the work and it is our consciousness of this Spirit within that produces the energy necessary to intentionally attract the life we desire. You see, our ultimate goal is to live from this awareness and comprehension, thus releasing all limitations from our experience.

To clarify, although your immediate goal may be to use the law of attraction to manifest a car, a new job, a relationship, or a recovery from illness, for example, your primary focus still needs to be on what the essence of these ‘things’ will give to you that you do not already have or that you want more of. In short, this means you want to focus upon the higher Truths of your desire which is always in alignment with that which is God (Peace, Love, Prosperity, Wholeness, Wisdom, Freedom, etc.)

A few tools that one can use to embrace their unlimitedness and this higher consciousness are:

  • Meditation
  • Seeking Silence
  • Prayer
  • EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique (or any of the Meridian Therapies)
  • Affirmations and Visualizations
  • Goal Setting
  • Radical Forgiveness
  • Positive Therapy (the kind that releases the old patterns through forgiveness while embracing the future as a primary intention of the therapy)
  • Treasure Mapping
  • NLP (Neuro-Linquistic Programming)
  • Essential Oils
  • Bach Flower Remedies and the list goes on.

Let’s look at meditation, for example, since it’s a universally accepted key to unlock spiritual enlightenment and the doorway to personal transformation.

Now, if you sit down to ‘intentionally focus’ and your mind races out of control, first, know that you are not alone.

Every spiritual teacher that has ever lived has preached the benefits of meditation as a tool for connecting with the Spirit within and quieting the mind. However, very few spiritual seekers stick with meditation long enough to truly reap the rewards of this spiritual practice. The reason they do not stick to the practice is not because meditation doesn’t work for them, as many believe, but because they can’t ’stop their racing mind’ long enough to experience the benefits. They quit before they get to that place of meditative peace and connection.

They simply choose to not finish what they started.

There’s not a single spiritual teacher that has ever obtained spiritual enlightenment that hasn’t used meditation (in its myriad of forms) for their personal transformation.
And, they too had to overcome their ‘uncontrollable mind’ to achieve mental, emotional, and spiritual mastery.

When we make a commitment to improve our lives or master a new skill, often our experience of improvement or our ability to perform may actually worsen before we see the improvement we desire.

In the coaching world, this often predictable trend is known as the ‘J-curve’. In a book by the same name, author Ian Bremmer explains why nations who move from ‘closed and undemocratic’ to ‘open and democratic’ will first go through a period of instability before coming out the other side and landing upon greater stability. Understanding that this state of instability is par for the course can actually support all parties involved in ’staying the course.’
While not understanding this curve can result in abandoning the course before reaching their desired destination; which of course, results in a return to the previously undesired state of certain instability. This compromised place of ‘a known fear’ is better than an ‘unknown fear’ leaves us stagnant and complacent by default.

In our spiritual lives, we too go through states of emotional instability when trying to improve upon our spiritual connection (or manifest more). The intention to align our feeling nature with our thinking nature requires persistent attention, a willingness to practice the transformational tools regularly and consistently and a willingness to fail, fail, and fail again before fully obtaining a greater state of stability on the other side.

The key here is not to look at the problem as an insurmountable obstacle but as simply a part of the natural process of improvement. In holistic health care circles this J-curve is sometimes experienced as a ‘healing crisis’ and in ‘conscious creation’ it’s sometimes perceived as complete chaos and is called ‘chemicalization.’

No matter what you call this state of transition, recognize it as just that – a state of transition.

Here’s one more example, from the book, The Coaching Revolution: How Visionary Managers Are Using Coaching to Empower People and Unlock Their Full Potential by David, Ph.D. Logan and John King, to help put your process into perspective. When Tiger Woods, considered by many to be the most gifted professional golfer of all time, decided to improve his game, he began working with a new coach who adjusted his club grasp. Initially, his game was decidedly ‘off’ and he lost more than he won. Fans who did not understand the ‘improvement’ process lamented that he may be gone for good and that he’d lost his touch. Then, as he maintained the course and pushed through his ‘J-Curve’, he eventually returned with talent far superior than his pre- improvement process performance.

Anyone that maintains the course of constant and never- ending improvement must be willing to push through their own “J-Curve’ when it appears. On the other side is the glorious experience of greater freedom, fulfillment, and spiritual unity. From this place of unity, all things that we desire manifest with greater ease because we simply maintain our connection to the constant and never-ceasing flow.

And, there’s even better news than this. ask any seeker who has pushed through their “J-Curve’ and they’ll tell you:
“You’ll be happy to know – you can’t ever go back to the way you used to be.”

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How to Manifest a Miracle ?

Friday, October 30th, 2009

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Dear Anisa,
My son was illegally arrested in Mexico almost two years ago. He is still in prison there. Is it possible to manifest his being released soon with positive results? I am not sure this type of thing can be done. If so, I am willing to do what is needed to have positive results on this. Thanks. I have been very anxious on this and having negative feelings so am sure that is part of what holds this thing up. – Sherry

 

Law of Attraction Help

Law of Attraction Help

 

 

Yes, it is absolutely possible to manifest his release. It won’t be an easy task but it is certainly possible.

I have witnessed clients turn amazingly devastating situations around using the law of attraction, so there’s not a doubt in my mind that you can do it too.

I have worked with clients who have produced instantaneous cancer remission (healing), prevented back surgery, manifested miraculous amounts of money just in the nick of time, manifested fair and swift resolution of malpractice lawsuits and so many other seemingly impossible, “against all odds” types of creations/miracles.

You’ll have to be willing to detach, which is usually the hardest thing for a mom to do. However, the law of attraction applied intentionally works with pure belief, detachment, and faith… which is why the anxiousness and worry that you so rightfully feel must be eliminated, in order to attract your son’s release.

Here’s your order of business in Manifesting a Miracle:

1 – Accept and Make Peace with What Is!

As long as we feel angry, indignant, or anxious about the current situation; and we reject our reality as it stands, we are vibrating in harmony with resistance, negativity, and uncertainty. This uncertainty must be removed if we are to manifest a miracle.

How do you accept what is? How do you make Peace with something as horrible as your son being locked away unjustly and maybe never getting to see him again, ever? How can a mother possibly make peace with that?!?!?!

Your Answer: Choose Faith.

Making peace with what is; loving what is and honoring it as somehow part of the Divine Plan, leaves you in a place of automatic faith.

“The only force that can overcome an idea and a faith is another and better idea and faith, positively and fearlessly upheld.” – Dorothy Thompson, (1893-1961) journalist, political commentator and a leading opponent of Hitler and 1930s fascism.

“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” Heb 11:1 (NIV)

Whether this experience deserves your understanding or not, you must relinquish any and all resistance to honoring your son’s experience as absolutely a part of the Divine Plan for his life, his son’s life, and yours.

In my experience, you can access that place of peaceful acceptance with a combination of prayer, affirmation, meditation, EFT and/or any other modality that helps you to process the emotions and come out the other side.

Please note that peaceful acceptance does not feel like apathy. When you have achieved a place of absolute acceptance, you will not feel apathetic, sad, or resigned but you will feel hopeful, peaceful, and certain. Anything less than these positive emotions are an indication that you have not truly put your faith in the Divine Order but have succumbed to apathy instead. Be diligent and demand pure acceptance from yourself as opposed to ‘giving up.’

“Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all — the apathy of human beings.” -Helen Keller

2 – When you’ve achieved peaceful acceptance, Command your Desire.

The ingredients for powerful intentional creation are peaceful acceptance of what is combined with positive intention, belief that it is possible, and optimistic emotional fuel topped off with gratefulness and absolute certainty.

Practice absolute certainty by imagining your son’s return as confidently as you imagine the sun will rise in the morning. When you see yourself embracing your son as he exits the airplane with as much conviction as you feel about the moon and the stars shining at night, on a regular basis, then you will be in a place to attract his safe return.

This applies to anyone reading this article that has a miracle to create. Apply the same level of certainty, assurance, confidence, and expectation to your desires as you do the belief that your heart will still be pumping in the morning or the Earth will still be spinning.

3 – Trust in the inherent goodness of man.

“I feel no need for any other faith than my faith in the kindness of human beings. I am so absorbed in the wonder of earth and the life upon it that I cannot think of heaven and angels.” – Pearl S. Buck

If you believe the Mexican penal system to be unjust, it will continue to be for you. If you believe his jailers are cruel and immoral, it will be for you.
Instead, you must send your son’s jailors love, strength, acceptance and the idea that within them is an inherent goodness that cannot be undone.

“If your heart acquires strength, you will be able to remove blemishes from others without thinking evil of them.” – Mohandas K Gandhi

This applies to anyone who is facing a crisis. If you are facing surgery, then putting your confidence in the intelligence and skill of your surgeon is required; if you are facing divorce then sending love and acceptance to your future ex is essential; and, if you are going to manifest the release of your son from a Mexican prison, then acquiring a peaceful love for his jailors is crucial for his safe and swift return.

4 – Follow your guidance and take inspired action.

Having worked towards the above, God/The big Universe will send you inspirations. You may be guided to give or participate in worthy causes for others. You may feel an urge to contact certain authorities, to reach out for assistance, or to speak about your son’s situation.

Your work is to bravely and boldly listen and follow your guidance while still remaining peacefully detached to the outcome. Choose to take inspired action for the sake of the action alone; trusting that wherever it leads will be perfect; while maintaining that feeling of certainty that your son is already set free.

I am holding the vision of Brad at home with you and your grandson; sipping a nice cup of hot chocolate and smiling with the kind of joy that only freedom and loved ones can supply.

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