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Is there such a thing as over-giving or misguided giving? The reason I ask is because throughout of my life, all I remembered of my mother was that she gave to everyone, and she was grossly taken advantage of. My mother was a wonderful woman who did not know how to say no to individuals who took gross advantage of her kindness. I had to do a lot of forgiveness work during the last few years of my mother’s life, when it became so clear how much everyone took from her and no one was really there to care for her but me. Truly, it has been a challenge for me being on the spiritual path and doing the best I can to continue to love, give, serve and forgive and witness individuals coming to me like perpetual charity cases. What are your thoughts on this? I am ready to transform this and transcend it permanently! -Love, Sandra
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When our giving is out of balance, we can be stripped of a healthy sense of reciprocity and honoring boundaries. If you are giving too much then it can absolutely create a negative attractor pattern. When our giving leaves us feeling used, taken advantage of, and even abused, we must take a step back to re-assess our ‘giving intentions.’
If our giving is coming from a place of healthy generosity with no strings attached, then we are in alignment with healthy tithing.
However, if our giving intention is from a place of obligation, guilt, shame, a need to control, a need to make restitution for a wrong-doing, or a need to feel or be acknowledged as a certain ‘type’ of person; a need to be thought of as generous, powerful, or successful, for example, then this intention is out-of-balance and therefore our giving is out of balance.
Over-giving comes from a co-dependent need to be validated and cherished, which is always inspired by a lack of self-confidence and an inability to be our own source of happiness.
When we give to make up for our ‘inadequacy’, we will never be able to give enough to fill the void we feel inside.
The solution is the same as it is for any other ill-belief – to work towards pure self-confidence; to work towards fully embracing an absolute certainty of your unlimitedness; a belief and firm knowingness that you are indeed a Divine Child of God, worthy of all that you desire.
From this place, you’ll be inspired to give according to the higher order of life and not from a place of limitation.
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